Impossible. That’s what immediately consumed my mind when I first felt to give up 3 of my most favorite things. Ever. These were my dietary staples and what society flaunts in front of my face on the daily. Giving up gluten, sugar AND alcohol? IMPOSSIBLE.
And yet, here I sit over a year and a half later, having done the impossible. And feeling healthier, stronger and more nourished than ever. In skin, soul and spirit.
This past year hasn’t been easy – I won’t sugar coat it 😉 – but isn’t it crazy and so true that sometimes the hardest decisions really are the best ones for us? I knew all about the negative effects that gluten and sugar had on my body, my mind and my skin – I had visited naturopaths, read articles and watched documentaries – and beautiful skin was a big deal to me.
Being a part of the beauty industry for nearly a decade and working as an esthetician, I quickly became passionate about caring for skin from the inside out. And I felt that if I wanted to be a leader in the industry and have authority with my guests who came to see me for skin advice and provide answers from an authentic place for holistic wellness, I needed to live it out first.
How could I continue to eat bread (seriously my favorite food!), pasta and pastries when I knew how gluten caused issues with digestion and digestion is essential for gut health and gut health is essential for skin health?
How could I keep treating myself to foods full of refined sugars when I knew how sugar caused inflammation in the body and the breakdown of the health and strength of our cells + skin? And how could I down a glass of wine (pass the Chardonnay please!) or pour a cocktail when I knew how alcohol actually contains both gluten AND sugar?
When this conviction came over me, I started realizing how hard this was actually going to be as I skimmed restaurant menus, read food labels and passed by dessert trays at parties. Gluten, sugar and alcohol are everywhere. And more times than not, gluten and sugar are hidden in ingredient lists (looked at your yogurt or salad dressing labels lately?), disguised under different names (i.e. high fructose corn syrup or fruit juice) or replaced with other unhealthy alternatives.
I knew if I was going to succeed, I was going to have to get creative.
Creativity is fun and exciting and adventurous – it doesn’t have to be scary or overwhelming. And that’s what I’ve discovered along this journey of going gluten-free, refined sugar-free and becoming my sister’s certified DD. I’ve found that any foods I used to enjoy that were made with wheat flour, white sugar or red wine, I can actually create the same delicious flavor + food but with very different ingredients. Ingredients that are nourishing and life giving and that strengthen my skin, make my mind clear, heal my gut and give my body the boost it’s actually hungry for.
Since incorporating new, creative and fresh food choices, I have seen a significant shift in my skin + entire self. Our skin, soul and spirit are all connected and getting creative with beauty + well-being has abundant benefits that extend deeper than what we can simply see. I can truly attest to that.
My family and friends have even consistently made comments on how they believe this is the best I’ve ever looked. I agree, and will also add, this is the best I’ve ever felt.
Once plagued with problematic breakouts, my skin is now consistently more smooth and clear. (And of course, joining the PP team and switching to non-toxic skincare has had a big part to play in that!) My body feels stronger and my belly and legs have naturally slimmed. My mind is sharper and I definitely don’t miss those hangover headaches. My spirit feels more connected to myself, to others and to the world around me.
Giving up gluten, sugar and alcohol has caused me to slow down before making decisions and mindfully choose what to put on my plate and pour in my glass. I have become more conscious, I have become more aware and ultimately, I have become more alive.
This choice I made over a year ago started with a conviction, was sparked with creativity and suddenly became contagious. I’ve been able to share the story behind my “no thank you, I’m not drinking tonight” and my “hold the bun, please” with curious minds and people who feel stuck in their sugar rut.
My story may be different from your story. You don’t have to go cold turkey. You don’t have to radically change your diet all at once. But I hope you can pull some positive perspectives or encouragement that anything is possible.
You can transform your health and way of life. It is possible to say no. It is possible to say yes. You’re not alone. You’re worth it.
I share my story to show how conviction and creativity can fuel a fresh way of living that’s contagious. It’s fun. It’s challenging. It’s fulfilling. And actually, I don’t view my decision to give up gluten, sugar and alcohol as cutting out anything. I’m really not missing out. I’m gaining so much more than I ever gave up.
My gluten-free go-tos:
- replacing grains with greens (lettuce wrap everything)
- coconut + almond flours
My sugar swaps:
- coconut sugar
- raw + local honey
My alcohol alternatives:
- kombucha
- sparkling water + lime + mint leaves
This was the motivation I needed to get back on gluten and sugar free! I was doing well and let “hormones” get the best of me! I was feeling so good, though! But, it’s hard. Gluten is in everything and I also have to be careful with dairy, so eating out gets tricky. 🙁 but, it’s soooooo worth it!! Thank you for this post!! Just what I needed–on grocery shopping day, too! 🙂
Hi Megan. Check out some Paleo recipe sites. There are lots of GF, DF options that are yummy. PaleoOMG is one of my favorites. 🙂
Yes! Absolutely agree. There are so many incredible resources that are available for inspiration + nourishing recipes! We love PaleOMG, Rachel Mansfield, Lexi’s Clean Kitchen (the list goes on!) – so many creative ways to cook and communities that are choosing a similar lifestyle.
Aw, Megan thanks for your response + I’m so grateful you’ve been motivated again, you got this! Create that shopping list and stick to it 😉 Even with hormonal cravings, lean in to them and find healthy swaps. There’s definitely salty and sweet and crunchy comfort foods that are still good for you! Excited for you, we’re in this together 🙂
I’ve been following my new healthier lifestyle for a week and a half now and I feel so much better. I thought I was healthy before – eating between 5 and 7 fruit and veg a day and exercising 4/5 times a week but this has taken how I feel to a whole new level. I have tried lots of new recipes, which is great, because I had got stuck in a rut with that. I get the cravings still but I’m not eager to give in to them, just find better alternatives instead. Reading about other people who have done the same and had similar experiences certainly helps too. Thank you.
Ellen, this is amazing! Thank you for sharing some of your health journey with us. It’s always so inspiring and encouraging to connect with others on a similar path and we wish you all the best and pursue health + wholeness! XO
This is such a wonderful post, Courtney! Thank you for sharing ahout your experience. I am definitely feeling inspired to make some changes! 🙂
Thanks Alex!! 🙂 So appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment and I’m excited you’re inspired! Please connect with me whenever if you have questions or want recipe suggestions, or just to say hi 😉 Miss you sweet girl and am so grateful for your support. Hope you’re still loving our deodorant! XO
I totally agree with you Courtney. I gave up gluten and dairy 5 years ago to combat thyroid, adrenal issues and the last year added grain free, sugar free & toxin free to the list. I LOVE my new Primally Pure non-toxic skincare regimen! Together they have transformed my health, skin and body. At 46, my friends ask me how I stay looking so young. My answer: Diet, exercise & Primally Pure (skin oil, fancy face serum, beauty cream, lip balm, mist, deodorant… I’m a convert clearly) ! 🙂 Continue your journey & stay strong!
Thanks so much for sharing your own journey, Heather – I’m inspired!! It’s so encouraging to hear others who have made similar decisions and are experiencing such a positive transformation, too. Your story is powerful and we’re so grateful you’ve made PP a part of that!! XO
I love this post because it is confirmation of what I have LIVED for the last five years!!! I have been grain, sugar and alcohol free for five years and have never felt better. My skin looks amazing and people often ask me if I am aging in reverse!
Yes!! Age reversal 😉 Food has such a powerful part to play in the aging process and it’s incredible to hear how people have really noticed the positive effect it’s had on you, Rose. I’m always so encouraged when I hear stories from those who have been on this journey longer than me – I have hope that I can continue on and the benefits will only continue to build. XO
Love this and totally agree from my own experience. Out of curiosity though, doesn’t all kombucha have sugar? I love it but that’s the one thing about it that makes me wonder if it’s still “good for me”.
Aw, amazing! My friends and I began making kombucha a few years ago and when I first saw how much sugar went into it, that was definitely a question and concern I had. However, the sugar is a part of this process for the culture (scoby) to consume and is necessary for it to ferment. The sugar that remains is minimal and actually less than the amount in natural carrot juice. The health benefits for your gut and whole body are worth it, in my opinion 😉 Hope that’s helpful!
Thank you for sharing your journey, Courtney!
You are a beautiful, passionate, kind and inspiring woman.
Your commitment to a healthy LIFE is a fine example to others.
I am 59 and continue to seek wellness in every aspect of my LIFE:
Prayer & Meditation. Exercise & Stretching. Local veggies & fruits. Hard work & Lots of relaxation.
Love & Laughter. Acceptance & Humility.
I’m never too old to learn…never too old to change!
You are an inspiration to ALL humans that you meet, Courtney!
Keep up the awesome work that you love to do! Keep shining your amazing light!
Love to you always.
Paula! This is the kindest + most encouraging reply! Thank YOU 🙂 I love your holistic perspective of wellness (I’m going to write those down!) and how you authentically live it. You’re an inspiration and hardly look a day over 35 😉 All my love, XO
What a great story! Question – did you feel any stress or anxiety when it came time for your year to end? Obviously, you chose to stick with it (good for you!) but did you have any moments where you were scared about undoing the progress you made? Also, do you do dairy and caffeine?
Thank you for sharing your journey, it’s inspiring to read!
Hi Dana! Thanks so much for your questions + encouragement! To be honest, when I made the decision to no longer drink alcohol or indulge in gluten or sugar, I didn’t give myself a timeframe. I just started. And as I continued, I realized how good I was feeling and how much stronger and healthier my body and mind became. While I still may enjoy a glass of red with friends in the future, for now, I’m enjoying my decision and the way it’s changed my life – for the better!
So, there really wasn’t any anxiety at all or fear about undoing the progress I’ve made. But, for those moments that may come, a piece of wisdom that’s been given to me is: compassion. Compassion for yourself, your choices, your failures and your triumphs. Be compassionate as you commit to a new lifestyle and if you take that cookie or cocktail, tomorrow’s a new day 🙂
And yes, I’m still doing diary and caffeine. I actually have both at the same time! I’m obsessed with fatty lattes (coffee + grass fed butter + coconut oil!) XO
do you have a favorite make up line?
Hi Dawn! We have a few favorites 🙂 We love W3LL People, RMS Beauty, Ilia, Lily Lolo and Beauty Counter. XO
Hi Courtney, I am loving all PP products. I have a ? do you recommend probiotics and if so what brand. There are so many out there.
Thank You,
Ann
Hi Ann! Thanks so much for your kind words + feedback, we’re so thankful you’re loving your PP products. This is a probiotic that Bethany loves and has been using for years with great results: https://amzn.to/2Givq2Q
Hope that’s helpful, XO
This is amazing and so inspiring girl! Is it okay to use honey, maple syrup, monk fruit extract or agave nectar as sweeteners?
Hi Taylor, Thanks so much for your sweet response! When I am in the mood for a sweet treat, I love using raw + local honey or even Manuka honey, 100% pure maple syrup or monk fruit. I actually try to avoid agave nectar as it’s the highest in fructose, which is the most damaging form of sugar. Even dates are a great way to add a little sweet + nutrition to treats. Hope that’s helpful + we’re so excited to help support you on your own health journey 🙂 XO
This article was the motivation O needed. I have gone grain, soy and gluten free. I don’t eat processed foods and I’m still having issues with my skin Sugar and Alcohol are the only things I havent given up.
What do I have to lose!
Hi Debbie! Thanks so much for taking the time to share a bit about where you’re at along your journey. I’m SO grateful this post could be the encouragement and boost of motivation you’ve been needing. YOU’VE GOT THIS 🙂
After having a small glass of champagne this past New Year’s Eve with the ball drop, I decided that I didn’t want to drink anymore. I’ve noticed more and more what it does to the people around me – how they act, how they speak to me, how they speak to my children. I don’t like it, and don’t deserve it. And I don’t want to be that person that becomes someone I’m not because I had a glass or two (okay, maybe more) of wine because everyone else was as well. 4 weeks into 2020 there have been moments where I thought about having a glass just to make myself feel better (HELLO stress). But I didn’t, and am so glad that I didn’t.
I already don’t eat gluten because of an allergy. Sugar I’ve given up before for short periods of time, so I know that’s possible. Dairy would be my 3rd to go. I do have an intolerance to it, but occasionally still have it. And my skin SCREAMS at me when I do. I know I should give it up for good because my gut and skin would thank me.
Hi Amy! Thank you so much for sharing your story, your experience, and your heart with us. You definitely deserve to be surrounded by people, experiences and products that support your well-being – not steal from it. We’re all on our own journey and it’s beautiful to see how yours is continuing to unfold! We hope we’re able to help provide some support, encouragement and inspiration from our blog posts, products and personal team stories. 🙂 We’re cheering for you as you keep pursuing health and wholeness this new year, Amy! XO
Do you drink coffee? Do you eat fruit? Just curious:)
Hi Kate! Oh goodness, I LOVE coffee. 🙂 I drink it in a few different ways and have upgraded the coffee I drink daily. I swap between organic, mold-free coffee, water-processed decaf or my fav fatty lattes (coffee blended with collagen peptides + ghee/coconut oil). And occasionally I’ll do a coffee cleanse for a week or 2 and sip roasted dandelion tea instead – it almost tricks my mind to think I’m sipping my favorite coffee instead! And up until a few months ago, I ate fruit often. I added organic berries to my smoothies and loved adding different fruits to my salads. However, I recently tried to minimize even natural sugars and am sticking to totally green smoothies and salads for the time being. I know it sounds so crazy but I feel so much grace in this season and trusting that it’s only temporary. 😉 XO